Culture shock is a more formal way of saying “What the &^*% is going on with these people? We don’t do that back home!”
I think it’s exciting when I get a little bit of culture shock. Through the whole process you learn about a new culture, point out the cultural differences between your own culture and a foreign one, and most importantly, you learn to accept something you probably thought was nonexistent.
Sometimes we get so caught up in our day-to-day routine that we think that in another part of the world they do the same thing as we do in the exact same way. The thing is, in certain places there is no need to cross the border to find out things work differently than we imagined them. Since I have spent most of my life between the US and Ecuador, which means that since I was small I knew that even the way you cook food is different, I have had an open mind to all people and things that are foreign. Nevertheless, that doesn’t mean that I can shy away from getting culture shock now and then.
My semester abroad in London, Ontario (Canada, for those of you who don’t know) taught me this, and the following are some of the “shocking” things that occurred that have made either go huh? or laugh out loud when they happened.
Remember, “shocking” is completely subjective depending on where you were raised and the life you lead.
1. Oh, so you want some beer?
It’s 11 pm. First Saturday in London, Ontario. 3 South Americans. Nothing planned for the night. What to do, what to do? Buy some liquor, of course. As any Ecuadorian or American would do, the first thought would be to walk down to the corner store or the nearest supermarket to grab a beer. We thought it would be that easy. When we arrived to the nearest corner store, the three of us inspected each and every fridge, liquor to no avail.
South American #1: THERE ISN’T EVEN NON ALCOHOLIC BEER!
South American #2: Calm down, there has to be some type of liquor.
South American #3: Let’s ask the clerk. Sir, where do you have the liquor hidden?
Clerk: You’re in Ontario. There’s no liquor at any store. Only the beer store and LCBO.
South American #1: But we can get some at the supermarket… right?
Clerk: You can’t get beer at a supermarket.
All 3 South Americans:
It turns out, we were liquor free that night. It was only after a couple of days that we were fully informed about the weird Ontario liquor laws. You can only get liquor at LCBO (Liquor Control Board of Ontario) and The Beer Store (the creativity amazes me). Well, I don’t know the reasons why it’s like this in Ontario, but please let Ecuadorians know before going. Shall ya? At least we can avoid having the clerk at the corner store laughing at us.
2. Take off your shoes, please.
There’s an unwritten law in Ecuador.
You don’t take off your shoes unless you’re in your house. Period.
Unless you’re at the beach, sleeping over a friend’s house or getting in the pool/ shower.
In Canada when you walk into a person’s home, you just simply take off your shoes. Here’s the evidence:
3.Bring Your Own Beer
Just how in spanish you say “Mi casa es su casa” we also believe in “Mi cerveza es su cerveza”: My beer is your beer.
When there’s a party it is more or less expected that the host have liquor, and while as a guest you can arrive with some to the party, it’s everyone’s liquor.
It’s simply ludicrous not to share. Even among people you’ve just met, sharing a beer eases the tension.
Alfer all, I think we all learned to share in Kindergarten.